FRIENDS & FAMILIES, Don't Judge without Knowing the Sides.

Judging on a person that u even know most of your life without asking to listen to his/her side.  I wonder, what thoughts do you have in mind?  Is it jealous that you see her or him being buddy-buddy with someone that had done wrong to you?  Feeling anger inside that you know you can’t control her or him to be friend with, or not to be friend with?  Or maybe you are afraid to lose this person again if she or he befriends with someone?

Of course, you can always tell her or him how you feel about whatever that makes you uncomfortable.  That is part of the communication key to keep friendship going however you don’t need to judge on her or him, or shout at her or him saying out loud that they are not smart enough to be befriend with someone.  You never know what their sides are if you keep on judging them simply because you dislike what you see or how you feel.

Come on, enough with judging especially you know this person for the most of your life, and people makes mistakes.  How about judge yourself because you are still making mistakes everyday. 

Yep, no one is perfect, we still make mistakes everyday even that we don’t realize. 

Well, if you don’t like what you see this person being buddy-buddy with someone, why not suggest an advice and don’t forget to mention how much you care for him or her, so they will feel appreciated, and cared from you, and who knows they will consider to listen and take your advice.  Judging make things worst and they will not listen to you at all and even tell you to mind your own business with the middle finger up to your face.  

So, that is YOUR mistake, don’t you realize that?

Don’t waste your time thinking so hard why they are friends.  Don’t waste your time judging on the person without knowing the sides.  Don’t waste your time out of nothing. 

:::Question:::

What are you doing right now at the moment?  Sitting alone, staring at the facebook just inches away from your face like you have no life, panting like a mad bull out of jealous and anger, looking at your phone, and you can not control how emotionally you are.  There you are texting, yelling, and judging at him or her.

Now, how do you feel?  Better?  Satisfied that you are over the top of the head that you are right at everything?

Really dumb, I am applauding and here is my advice.

Be prepared to say goodbye to the friendship, and weep. 

Judge yourself next time, alright?